On a radio show played in the area in which I lived a man called in to report to the DJ how his girlfriend who was “like a 5” swallows and how because she swallowed she became “like an 8.” My SO was tempted to call in and tell the DJ and through the airwaves this other guy that with that logic I must be like a 12. When my SO told me this, I must say my confidence went crashing through the roof. But in the back of my mind, I began to mull over the question: “Does swallowing while giving head make one more attractive?”
My one friend, who I was once involved with said most definitely yes. To him swallowing is a very desired trait for a variety of reasons. As he said himself in this conversation:
“well if you think about it, spiting is a socially frowned upon activity in general
and you do it so well lol
also men prefer a women who swallows it's less messy, it continues the oral sex, and it shows she cares more
So mentally a man would register that at lest subconsciously”
From this, one could almost assume he has greater respect and is willing to show more affection for someone who swallows.
Another friend of mine (who once again I was involved with) says he feels it doesn’t necessarily boost attractiveness, but rather desirability. So to see if this difference is more than mere semantics I consulted Mr. Merriam-Webster. Attractiveness is the quality of arousing interest or pleasure while desirability is the quality of having pleasing attributes or properties. So in reality, the two qualities are not the same. But even with that said, my friend would probably go for someone who swallows over someone who doesn't, despite the latter's attributes.
I personally just enjoy the pleasure it brings my partner when I swallow. Once I lapped cum out of the palm of a lover’s hand. He was in complete awe of me for a few seconds at least. And in truth, that made me so incredible happy and made me feel quite good about myself. Yes, while giving head, it can feel degrading. But that is why I like to do it and I think that is why I swallow. Because in the end, I’m the one who ends up with the power. I have the power to make him cum and make him squirm a little. Personally, I think that makes it worth it.
Well all that is very well and true. The level of desirability or attractiveness that changes or doesn't change hinges on the individual. In other words: some people may feel that it makes the girl more desirable or attractive which appears to be the case of the people you've asked, some people may be turned off by it or grossed out, or there yet others such as myself that are indifferent. Sure, there is a certain quality about it that's appealing as for the reasons, they're more or less mentioned above. But likewise with spitting, it too brings its own quality, for lack of a better word, its own awe. So to recap. it only matters based and determined by the individuals in questions and their personal desires, likes, and dislikes. And as such, in a way, it is also dependent on you; if you find it to be attractive or appealing or not. Based on last statements here, it seems you have your answer.
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I appreciate your opinion. What you are primarily saying is the individuals involved really dictate the role swallowing plays in their relationship? I can see how this might be more important, because now I see that swallowing is important and now would never considered spitting. Spitting seems disrespectful...So I suppose a generalization here would be guys like it, but not all consider it essential.
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